People call others FAKE but, aren't we all?

Ok, so I've just been thinking... we've all criticized someone because they are fake. Thing is, aren't we all?

Unconsciously, there will always be someone we are imitating. People we have been looking at or listening to since we are young. People whose image was an impact for us while we were growing up and somehow, we ended up acting like them. Someday you hear this girl with this very sweet voice and paused accent and you suddenly wish you sounded like her. Or if you are a guy, you probably want to sound like the cool guy of your class or even look like him or dress like him. Doesn't that mean that we all are a little fake? Only a few people could say that they are truly themselves. That people would feel no envy, no aspirations towards anything physical... But lets face it, thats probably only Jesus, Buda and Osho. The rest of us are all fake bitches (kidding) taking selfies cuz we saw someone we thought was cool doing it or painting little hearts on our nails cuz we saw it somewhere.

Usually they call fake the girls who wear loads of makeup. I honestly don't even see what the problem with that is. Maybe they are covering some insecurities? Maybe they aren't entirely confortable with themselves? Right, but who are we to judge? Don't we all have some insecurities anyway? Some girls that don't wear any makeup are actually too insecure to wear it. They worry that people will notice and start calling them fake, or they sometimes even think that they don't deserve to look pretty... that they'd look like a clown. Also makeup is kind of an art... nothing wrong with that. Some girls think they shouldn't wear makeup cuz "guys don't like it". Ok, if the guy is gonna be intimidated just cuz u wanna look pretty, think twice if that's the kinda guy you want to get with. Plus in the end we end up finding the people who's gonna like us however we are... with or without makeup. Many girls have natural looks and they can still have the most fake personality.

Same with plastic surgery. Ok, this a delicate subject cuz ANY surgery is dangerous at some point. There's always going to be a chance (as slight as it could be) that something goes wrong. Even if you find the best surgeon in your city, shit happens. So i think people should think how bad they actually want it and if its really going to help them in their lives. So, i'm not even going to talk about the fact that you will look fake or not, and I'm not even going to criticize it cuz I'd probably have some one day, but really be conscious that you are risking your life over bigger tits or smaller nose or wider eyes... Just saying.

Anyways, going back to our main subject, think twice when you criticize. You see a pretty girl and she gets all the guys attention, and suddenly you notice she's got fake nose. Are you the kind of girl who goes to your girlfriends like "yeah... she's pretty... but thats a fake nose, isn't it?" Or "yeah, she's cute, but she wears a lot of makeup..."(by the way, when you say that, you unconsciously or not, are trying to make people notice that this girl wouldn't actually be so pretty without makeup, so she's really no competition for you). Ok, its reaaaaally hard for people (myself included) when you feel envy. Yeap, one of the worst feelings in the world and you would never ever ever ever admit you get those feelings, but if those comments up there sound a bit familiar to you... face it, you feel envy.

Relax, nothing to worry about. Everybody feels it or has felt it at some points of their lives, but the good thing is that we can always work on being better persons and the only way to start, is by being open minded and realize we can make mistakes and really try to improve ourselves. After all, people changes every day.

So, I know we all criticize and we can all be a bit too harsh on people, but lets face that when we say those comments, we are not degrading the other person, we are actually degrading ourselves.

Something to think about :)

Chao!